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December 22, 2009: Lucille Ball Reincarnated In A 3-Legged Cat 


Animal lovers--I can't help but share this journey with you.

I've been sharing in recent weeks how somehow another amazing 3-legged cat has come into my life. I'm fostering Lily Pisa who showed up a couple months after the magnificent Tripod the 3-legged Wonder Cat passed away. I gave LP her formal DarynKagan.com introduction last week. You can see it here, in case you missed it.

What I must start sharing with you here in this blog space is how FUNNY this cat is. I've had amazing cats. I've had loving cats. I've never had a FUNNY cat. Yet, it seems just about every day she pulls off some incredibly funny stunt. At the risk of coming off as a new parent showing too many baby pictures, I'm just going to have to start giving updates right here.

Let's just say I know the deck is kind of stacked against me. This is one smart little kitty, who might be missing her right back leg, but she's what they call "polydactyl." That means she has an extra toe on each front paw. So what she lacks in leg, she makes up for in toes. And it means she can do things like open doors and pull off other mischief.

I've already figured out that Lily Pisa has a love affair with my laptop. You might think because it's warm. But there's something more going on here. A few weeks ago, I came home and found her lying across the key board and mouse sending hundreds of email! "Click! Click! Click! Click!"

I thought, "I'm on to you, Cat." So, when I left the room yesterday to take a phone call, I purposely closed the laptop. Score one for the smart Mama! Not so fast. When I wrapped up the call I heard the strangest sound coming from the other room. This is what I walked into: Share photos on twitter with Twitpic

Lily Pisa had OPENED the laptop. She was happily laying across the keyboard watching Japanese videos at full volume on a Japanese film society website. She must've liked what she saw because she had bookmarked the site and was in the process of making a donation when I walked in! Hopefully, I interceded before she committed my life savings in yen!

Just another day in the life.

I'll be sharing these moments and photos here as they develop. Something tells me there's going to be plenty of material.

Oh, I should mention Lily Pisa comes to me via Fancy Feline Rescue of The South. They would love to have more folks help foster and adopt. Last I checked, all the other kitties have 4-legs!

Do you have a furball comedian at your house, too? Please share over in our social online community.


December 21, 2009: Looking At Miracles 


So, here we go into the big Christmas week.

For some people, it's the happiest time of the year.

For some, the pressure, the dashed expectations, the disappointments are too much. It can be so easy to look around and see what others have or what others are doing and feel the lump of coal in your stocking.

Me?

Honest reporting? I would say it's a good holiday season. Certainly better than I was expecting when we turned what I call the "Here come the holidays" corner at Labor Day. I pretty much delight in the blessings, love, and invitations that have shown up in this last quarter of 2009. Because I'm human, I have had moments of getting wistful and nostalgic for some Christmases past, peeking over at others' plate seeing all that THEY have, thinking how Christmases future might be different.

Then they came.

The early Christmas presents.

Two phone calls.

The first was from someone I haven't spoken to in probably over two years. Jude Stringfellow is mom to a wonderful family in Oklahoma City. A family that happens to include kids and special 2-legged dog they call Faith. I first featured Faith back in 2007. She is by far the most popular dog ever featured here on this website. She was a puppy left to die that the Stringfellows took in and taught to walk upright on her back two legs. Faith now travels the world inspiring folks, showing that it's not about the parts that are missing from you life, it's about making the most with what you have. As Jude likes to say, Faith shows her that "you don't have to be complete to be complete."

Turns out the Stringfellows recently found out that they won't be having the Christmas they thought they would have this year. This is not a family that gets knocked down easily. So, they're making other plans. I posted their story late last week. If you haven't seen it, I encourage you to watch. I know their story and perspective shifted my heart.

Turns out I'm not the only one. Now comes the second phone call. It came the day after I put Faith's update up. An old friend was calling. She has the kind of life that would be easy to peak at, thinking, "Wow, now she's has the perfect Christmas! All the parts are there." Married, two kids. Both she and her husband are gainfully employed. They live in an area where they are surrounded by a huge family.

"Thank you so much for the Faith the dog story," she said.

Friend is certainly one who can appreciate a good story, but I couldn't help but wonder why that particular story prompted her to call at this unusual hour.

Turns out, even with all the parts in place, she and her family won't be having the Christmas they were planning on. Just last week, her husband was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease. Friend shared that she had her big cry last week. This week? She was ready to hear about Faith the 2-legged dog and her family.

When the Christmas miracle they planned on wasn't coming to them, they decided to deliver a few miracles of their own. Watch Faith's story to see how the Stringfellows are doing that.

One of those Stringfellow miracles was showing my friend and me that it's not about sitting staring about the miracle you had so hoped would be delivered to your doorstep. It's about looking for the miracles you can deliver to others. That's the gift. That's the miracle. Focus on that and it's amazing what does show up at your front door.

It's not about missing pieces, after all. Even with all the pieces in place, there is no guarantee you'll have the holiday you planned on.

Turns out, this is just the gift I wanted and need for this holiday season. It feels like 2010 is going to be a very big year. What better way to go into it than with the guidance that I look at the miracles that are here and celebrate each one as they arrive.

What am I doing this Christmas? I'll be looking at miracles.


December 18, 2009: Get To Say, "I Knew Them When!" 


I had to smile.

Couldn't help myself.

"Ooh! I know them...and them...and them!"

And so it went as I went down the list of the 100 semi-finalists in the Chase Community Giving Challenge.

The bank is committed to giving away a total of $5 million. They started their contest by opening up voting on Facebook. Non-profits signed up and encouraged followers to vote. Talk about an open casting call! 500,000 charities signed up. Chase has just announced the top 100 winners. Quite an accomplishment, there! Think about: beating out 499,900 other great causes. I was excited to look down the list. That's when I couldn't help but notice, "I know a lot of these folks!" I've met them by interviewing them and bringing you their stories here on this website.

Leigh Hurst created Feel Your Boobies after she was diagnosed with breast cancer in her early 30's. This national non-profit is now dedicated to encouraging women to know their bodies and become aware about breast health.

Darius Goes West are the oh-so-fun and unusual band of brothers who loaded up in an RV and headed West to give a special teen the ride of a lifetime. That one trip has now turned into the documentary that could raising big funds to find a cure for muscular dystrophy.

Songs Of Love is run by John Belzer who has made it his life's work to create original songs for children dealing with chronic and terminal illness.

The St. Bernard Project is helping families left homeless by Hurricane Katrina find affordable and sustainable housing in Louisiana.
Each of the top 100 has already won $25,000.

In a few weeks, things will get even more interesting. Over the next few weeks, each will submit a proposal of what they would do if the won $1 million! Starting January 15th, voting opens up again. Five of the top 100 will receive $100,000. One is going to get the big $1 million!

So, I encourage you to check out the Chase Community Giving page on Facebook. You'll get 5 votes. Sure, it would be great if you supported the great causes you've seen here on DarynKagan.com. I also encourage you to peruse the list of the top 100 and see what speaks to your heart. It's not everyday you get to help pass out millions of dollars without reaching in your pocket. It's as simple as reaching for your computer's mouse.


December 15, 2009: Some Great Holiday Shopping Tips!

 
Are you stuck with your holiday shopping?
 
I have a couple of creative ideas for you.
 
A sewing machine?  A wheel barrow?  A carpenter's tool set?
 
Does all that sound kind of ordinary?
 
Well, here's the twist: the person on your list won't actually get the gift.  Instead, someone you never met will.
 
A bunch of non-profits are raising funds this way.
 
Women For Women International has a great program.

So does the International Rescue Committee.

This is how it works.  You make a donation.  Your loved one gets a card telling them about the gift and a child or woman in need gets a boost.

Sounds like a win-win-win to me!

I'm also thinking of the special girls of Hekima Place this time of year.

This is the amazing home for girl scholars just outside of Nairobi, Kenya.

It's where I spent last Christmas and turned out to be one of the most meaningful holidays of my life.

You can meet the girls and get a look at my trip here.

Mum Kate Fletcher can always use help and volunteers in changing the lives of these remarkable girls.

I hope all those tips help.  Sure beats dealing with crowds and buying meaningless gifts at the mall!

December 14, 2009: Just A Moment To Brighten Someone's Day

I saw this on Facebook and think it's a great idea.

 When doing your Christmas cards, take one and send it to this address:

Holiday Mail for Heroes
P.O. Box 5456
Capitol Heights, MD 20791-5456

How simple!  How wonderful.  I think it took me all of 30 seconds to get out the extra envelope and address it.  Pennies to show a recovering soldier that I care.

What about you?  Do you have one extra holiday card you could pass along?
 

December 10, 2009: Why I'm So Proud Of My Sister!

The truth is all things are not equal among sisters.

When God was doling out smarts, creativity, and talent He saved the mother lode for my younger sister, Kallan.  I say that with no bitterness.  Just being the reporter that I am.  It is what it is. 

She was the kid who would walk into English class, calmly assess the course work and ponder, "So what do I need to do to get an 'A'? Okay, yawn."  Me? I did well in school but always had to work my you know what off to pull good grades. 

She can cook without following a recipe.  She has our mother's gift for design.  And you know how they say, "You'll never find a job sitting on the couch?"  I have personally witnessed my little sister do just this.  Once, while in job search mode, Kallan took some time off satisfied she had done what she needed to and was going to treat herself to a day  zoning out on the couch.  No sooner did she plop than the phone rang.  It was a top studio wanting to hire her. A studio, she hadn't even applied to, by the way.  Somehow, her resume "found" its way to this human resource department.  Amazing!

Oh, I should explain that my sister is a children's animation producer.  That's where the good news comes in for all of us.  She has spent the better part of 2009 using her many talents to create a new holiday classic.  The animated version of "Yes, Virginia, There Is A Santa Claus" debuts tomorrow on CBS (8pm ET.)  It's without a doubt her finest work yet.  Here's a peek:

The animation is gorgeous, special and like nothing I've seen before.  And if you're looking for a holiday story that has some substance and a wonderful message about believing, than this one is for you.

There are also some hidden surprises.  Like one of the young voice actors is actually a girl getting to live out her Make-A-Wish dream.  You can see that story here..

So please, gather the family around the television and set those DVR's.  You won't be disappointed in this wonderful program my little sissy (as I call her) has created for you!

December 1, 2009: Your Final Glimpse

So many of the stories here at DarynKagan.com touch people's hearts.  Then, every once in awhile, one comes along and sticks in their minds, as well.

That's the case with Jake Olson's story.  I posted it yesterday.  Jake is a 12-year-old boy who found out he would lose his one remaining eye to cancer.  Doesn't seem fair, does it?  Beat cancer 8-times only to find out to live, Jake would have to give up his sight.  He could've sat around feeling sorry for himself.  Only he couldn't.  Because had a big job with this final month of sight.  His parents asked him what were the final things he wanted to see and experience with vision.  To what Jake picked and how that dream come true, make sure you watch Jake's story.

Meanwhile, that has folks all over the world talking.  What would be your wish if you knew you were about to lose your vision?  What would be the final sights you'd want to see?  We're talking about it over in our social online community.




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